Sukujongela phantsi igraffiti yomntwana

Umzali unokubeka umzobo wentombi yakhe ye-TADPOLE kwifriji ngaphandle kothando lomntwana wakhe kunokufumana umfanekiso obonakalayo, kodwa ngabantu abaninzi, ukuba i-Tadpole yobugcisa ilunge kakhulu. Ngapha koko, amagcisa abantu abadala abangaqhelekanga badla ngokuphefumlelwa ngumzobo wabantwana. Ababukeli bafumene iipateni ezifanayo kumzobo wobugcisa kunye nabantwana; Omnye umzekelo nguzobo "x-ray", okanye umzobo apho umntu "ngaphakathi" womntu obonakalayo (njengomntwana oboniswe ngaphakathi kwesisu somfazi). Ngomyuziyam-gobe phandle apho abadla ngokubonisa isiqwenga sobugcisa banamhlanje kwaye bathi, [Umntwana wam wayenokwenza loo nto! "Ngoku kufanelekile ukukhumbula ukuba amaxesha amaninzi, eneneni nje ukuba umculi anengqondo.

Ingozi yethamsanqa okanye i-prodigy yethamsanqa, evuma ukuba abantwana abancinci bangazimiselanga ukuvelisa ukuguqulelwa ngokuqinileyo kunceda abo babonayo. Kubantwana abaninzi, ukuzoba kukuphelisa ngenxa yemveliso yokugqibela ikhokelela kuyo, kodwa kuba banokuphila ngokupheleleyo kwihlabathi labo lomzobo wabo kangangemizuzu embalwa. Abantu abadala banokufumanisa kunzima ukuba banxibelelane nolu hlobo lomzimba olugcweleyo, ongenakutsha. Kodwa amathuba okuzibonakalisa ebonisa ukuba abo basondelayo babaluleke kakhulu, kwanonyango, ixabiso labantwana.

Nokuba ubukhulu bezinto ezilula zinentsingiselo. Ngoku kwabonakaliswa ukuba xa abantwana bekuqaliswa, bengayifanelanga ngentshukumo, hayi ngemifanekiso. I-Poine Alfes, utitshala obangela umdla, ukhumbule umfundi oveze umzobo onomgca othe ngqo kwiphepha. I-APRE icinga ukuba umntwana wayenengxaki enkulu kumzobo de waqinisekisa ukuba umgca welinye lengoma evela kwiPrincess kunye ne-PeA, enye yeentsomi ezifundwayo eklasini.

IMaureen Ingram, ongubani utitshala wesikolo saseTyhile kwisikolo esinye, wathi abafundi bakhe badla ngokubalisa amabali ahlukeneyo malunga ne-ARDE yobugcisa kuxhomekeke kuthini xa beqalisa lo mfanekiso. "Njengabantu abadala bahlala besithi, Ndiya kukha ndizoba ihashe, 'Sandule ... kwaye sikhathazekile xa singayenza loo nto," watsho uIngram. "Babonakala ngathi bathabatha indlela engathethekiyo kakhulu, apho batsala khona, emva koko bayaqonda, 'Lihashe."

Ekugqibeleni, into enokuthi ityhileke kakhulu malunga nobugcisa boBantwana ayikho kodwa izinto abazithethayo ngexesha lenkqubo yokuzoba. Bahlala bebalisa amabali anikezela ngefestile ecacileyo yehlabathi labo kunemveliso yokugqibela. Ukubabuza ukuba umzobo wabo "kufanele ukuba ube" ungayivelisa iimpendulo ezininzi, nokuba; Abanye bade baphithisa ukuba abantwana basenokungawuthothise umsebenzi wabo kuba bengazange baqhele isiko labafundisi-ntsapho babo becela ukuba bachaze umzobo wabo kwaye babhale isihloko esifutshane kwisiqwengana sephepha. Izifundo zibonisa ukuba abantwana baya kudala ibali eliqinisekileyo ngelixa betsalela, kodwa xa besiza abantu abadala malunga nomsebenzi wabo babiza amagama okanye abalinganiswa kumfanekiso.

Kwaye kuthekani ngayo le mizobo ingaqhelekanga okanye eyoyikisayo? Ngaba oko kuthetha ukuba abantwana baxelela amabali anqabileyo okanye ongoyiki?

Kunzima ukutsho, kodwa kunqabile ukuba lifumane ingcinga elungileyo. I-Ellen Winner, unjingalwazi we-Psychology kwiKholeji yeBoston, ethule abazali abakhathaza xa abantu abadala betsala abantu abadala, besithi, ukuziva ngathi unamandla njengoko abantu abadala. Kodwa isizathu esinokwenzeka kukuba umntwana e-hasn`t ke wafunda ukwahlulahlula ubukhulu kwimmeliso yakhe; Isisombululo esilula kukwenza nje onke amanani ubungakanani obufanayo.

Eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu ukukhumbula kukuba "ubugcisa babantwana banengqondo yayo," utshilo ophumeleleyo. "Abantwana abaphangeli."

Yintoni engakumbi, ukuba unayo nayiphi na into enomdla kwi- Eva ye-Eva ye-Eva ye-Eva okanye i- Eva Sud Pad & I- EVA PROCCON PAD , nceda ukhululeke ukunxibelelana nathi.

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