Uvelwano: Ukufundisa abantwana ukuba baxabise abanye

Uvelwano yenye yezo mpawu zingaqhelekanga-into ephantse yafuna wonke umntu, kodwa bambalwa bayazi ukuba ungayifumana njani okanye ayifumane. Kwilizwe apho kuyagxininiswa khona, kunikezelwa ngokufutshane kodwa imfuno ephezulu. Sonke esi sizathu sine nokufundisa isizukulwana esizayo ukuba kuthetha ukuba nemfesane kwabo bakungqongileyo.

Yintoni uvelwano? Uninzi lwabantu luphawula uvelwano kunye novelwano, kodwa ngamaxabiso amabini ahlukileyo. Uvelwano ayisiyo nje amandla okuqonda iimvakalelo zomntu. Izaphuli-mthetho zihlala zisebenzisa ithuba lokufumana ithuba lokuqonda iimvakalelo zabo kwaye emva koko zithembele. Uvelwano lungaphezulu koko. Ayisiyiyo kuphela amandla okuqonda indlela oziva ngayo umntu, kodwa nayo iyazixabisa kwaye ikwahlonipha iimvakalelo zomnye umntu. Kuthetha ukuphatha abanye ngobubele, isidima, nokuqonda.

Abantwana kufuneka babone abantu abadala babonisa uvelwano --- ngelixa abanye abantwana benesiphiwo kwiintliziyo ezinobubele ngokwemvelo, kwiimeko ezininzi abantwana kufuneka babone uvelwano oluphakathi kwabo. Iqala ngendlela abazali abanxibelelana ngayo nabantwana babo. Abazali ababonisa umdla kwizinto ezibaluleke kakhulu kubantwana babo kwaye baphendule kwiimvakalelo ngendlela efanelekileyo nenomdla kukufundisa ubuchule bovelwano.

Hlanganisene neemfuno zemvakalelo --- xa abantwana banokufumana iimfuno zabo ngokweemvakalelo, kuye kwenzeka izinto ezimbini. Bafunda indlela yokufezekisa iimfuno zemvakalelo zabanye kwaye baxhonywa koko bafumanayo, kuthetha ukuba bakhuselekile ngokwaneleyo ukuba banike abanye xa kufuneka bafumane. I-jug engenanto ayinakuzalisa ikomityi.

Thetha nabantwana malunga neemfuno zemvakalelo - abantu abadala abadala bakufumanisa kunzima ukuthetha malunga neemfuno zemvakalelo okanye nantoni na enxulumene neemvakalelo. Ngenxa yoko, bachitha ubomi babo banikezele ngomxholo weemvakalelo. Aba ngabantu abangayazi indlela yokujongana neemvakalelo zabanye kwaye abakhululekanga ngayo nayiphi na imeko efuna impendulo ngokweemvakalelo. Ngamanye amaxesha bayoyika iimvakalelo zabo kuba bengazange bafunde indlela yokujongana neemfuno zemvakalelo.

Luvo oluhle lokuthetha nabantwana malunga neemvakalelo kunye nendlela abanye abantu ababona ngayo. Nika iimvakalelo zabo iimvakalelo (umzekelo, umona, ingqumbo, kunye nothando) kwaye ubafundise ukuba ziqhelekile. Thetha nabo malunga nokujongana neemvakalelo ngendlela efanelekileyo kwaye ubonise iimeko apho abanye abantu bajamelana neemvakalelo. Bafundise ngokuhlonela iimvakalelo zabanye kwaye bababonise indlela yokwenza kwimeko apho impendulo iyafuneka.

Yintoni engakumbi, ukuba unayo nayiphi na into enomdla kwi- Eva ye-Eva ye-Eva ye-Eva okanye i - Eva Sud Pad & I - EVA PROCCON PAD , nceda ukhululeke ukunxibelelana nathi.

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2018.06.27

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